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Dating tips
Why is
it that some guys get girls of their choice so easily, while others do
not have the same kind of success? Is it not possible that one day one
could walk up to any hot girl, start chatting with her, and have the
girl on your side like an addict?
Firstly, what is the best time to approach a girl?
Most
often than not one ponders over the question of "when" one should
approach a girl. How about if one just arrive in and still have your
coat on? How about the fact that she is just on her way to the toilet?
What if she just came in the bar and didn't even get her first drink?
All these questions bother most of us on our first date.
One can’t
have all the correct answers to these types of situations, but I do know
that there will always be a better time to approach a girl. You can
always be in a better mood, you can be more "active", the environment
could be quieter, or she could be simply standing looking around for any
guy to talk to her.
Let’s get
this out of the way that online dating is easy. If you’ve tried it and
didn’t get any dates, it’s because you were doing it in the wrong way.
If you’ve tried online dating and couldn’t get any women to go out with
you, it’s because you were doing it wrong and that’s why you failed.
Let me be
clear here, it’s not because they didn’t want to go out with YOU. You
can very well be a great guy. Online dating is an art or a skill like
playing poke or drawing or even driving a car. It’s not that much
difficult. Anyone can do it with a bit of consciousness. But you have to
do it right in order to taste success and pass out with flying colors.
Otherwise you’re going to end up yelling out, broken or hurt.
Thirdly, does getting dates require momentum?
If a girl
ever tries to reschedule the timings of the first date then there is
every possibility that the entire interaction would be spoilt. (If she
reschedules on a date well after you had sex with her, then is not a big
deal in general.)
The time
between getting the girl’s number and seeing her again after a period of
time is when most girls would fake, so it's important that one keeps
that time to less than a few days or at least a week. One must call up
the girl within two days of dating her and should set another date for
meeting her. In case a lot of time passes by between the two
interactions then the total intensity created
Do you know what annoys women and what attracts them?
If you
listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word
"Irritating or annoying" to describe certain men and certain things that
some men do.
Now, as
you can probably guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses
this particular word to describe a guy…
And, as
you can also probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word,
it's not usually about guys who she is attracted to.
Do you know how to pass the little tests done to check men?
Women's
high standards are a hard nut to crack or a difficult task for men to
surmount, but then they have to heap on it all these little tests that
men know nothing about (other than as a vague and mysterious,
closely-guarded secret of the female sect), and even less about how to
pass. It's not like there's a class on women that young boys can take to
prepare themselves for the inevitable times ahead when they will be
required to produce and execute this knowledge. Then that would have
been nice, isn’t it? |
